It's hard to believe, but ten years ago today Ben and I got married! Ten years ago we were completely different people- not knowing how our family would look, how many kids or gender of kids, etc., or having any idea what a "stay at home wife lifestyle" would look. These last ten years have passed in the blink of an eye. In another 10 years, we will be in another completely different stage- with teenagers getting ready to go to college. It really does all pass so quickly, and I am so thankful for every day that I get to spend with Ben by my side.
But here we are. It has been glorious. I simply adore Ben. Never in my wildest dreams did I think I could ever be this happy. With all the guys I was dating before him, I knew I wasn't in love or incredibly happy with any of them, and so I kind-of figured married life wouldn't be this great, deep love. Boy, am I glad I waited for Ben! He's my match in every way. I am blessed to be able to have the great love of my life- and I cherish every day with him.
Anyway, you will have to forgive me for waxing so nostalgic. It's the nature of the beast when you get to 10 years- with hopefully 50+ more to go in this life, and then after that forever. We've outlasted Katie and Tom, Brad and Jennifer, and Gwyneth and Chris. I'm feeling pretty good about that.
I was reading through my journal from our wedding day. I thought I would share. It starts before the ceremony and then picks up again afterwards (don't worry, it is G rated):
My wedding day! Yippee!
I didn't get any sleep last night except for maybe 4 or 5 hours. I woke up at 5 AM and couldn't go back to sleep. Crystal
(my then roommate and also our hairdresser for the day) and her mom slept in my hotel room, too. Crystal said she didn't sleep, either. We woke up and went to the free continental breakfast. Then came back and Crystal did mine and all of my sister's hair. It looks good- I have lots of bobby pins.
Today is not a regular day! We are probably going to leave for the temple in a half hour. I feel good. Dad gave me a father's blessing this morning. He said the Lord was pleased with my decision to marry Ben and to be married in the temple. He blessed me that Ben and I would grow as husband and wife. It was very sweet.
And, for the first time in 33 years (since HIS wedding!) my dad shaved his mustache! He looks good- 20 years younger. I love it. I'm calm and ready- let's get it done.
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Doesn't he look nice without a mustache? A few years before my wedding he promised me he would shave it on my wedding day. I don't think he actually thought I would ever get married, so he figure he was safe- but he held up to his end of the bargain. |
4:30 pm: Ben and I are married! Yippee!!! My mom and I had to fight with everybody to leave the hotel. Finally we left and got to the temple at just the right time. Ben was 10 minutes late. I had to wait for him so we could go to records together.
He got there and we went to records. Then mom and I went to the brides room. Then Ben and I got talked to by the sealer about specific things about the sealing.
Then we went into the sealing room. It was wonderful. We had about 45 guests. It was awesome to see everybody. When I saw Dad, that's when I got teary eyed. It's all just so special.
The sealer gave us advice. He admonished us to be good citizens in our community. He said I was very beautiful but that I had problems because of Ben but I would help him along. He said people would look up to us and say, "if they could get sealed in the temple, we can." He reviewed the promises we have received thus far. Then he had Ben help me kneel and continued with the sealing. I got teary and my mascara smudged, but I didn't cry so that was good.
Then we took lots and lots of pictures. Mom got frustrated waiting because it took so long. But it was great because the weather was sunny (though cold). It was almost too bright and became a problem for Steve to take pictures.
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Mostly I remember just being so happy all through the sealing. How could I not be? |
Then Ben and I went to lunch with my parents at the Arctic Circle. That was fun. Right now we're about to check into our hotel before we go to our reception.
Everything's great. I love it. We're married! The biggest problem so far: My veil keeps falling out. Oh, well.
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| Stephanie fixing my veil for the up-teenth time |
Today's awesome- everything is great. Just the reception to go!